After All

January 20, 2012
My husband came home from Afghanistan on New Years Eve! This deployment lasted 353 days apart total, lasting from December 29, 2010 to December 31, 2011. It was one long year! 

My husband's career in the military will be ending in 2013, so we are blessed knowing that we are done with deployments - this was our final homecoming.

Back in August I came across the song "After All" - I had heard it before, but it was almost like I was hearing it for the first time. And I realized that it was our story in a song." After all the stops and starts, we keep coming back to these two hearts." I listened to that song on average about four times a day for the last half of the deployment - I had to listen to it each night just to fall asleep. The tears would flow and I would just imagine the day when we would be reunited again after all this time apart. 

The video below shows tells the story of our homecoming in detail. It's around 10 minutes long but I hope that you will take the time to watch it. 

I've also added a whole new page on the site for our homecoming video, youtube clip of the entire ceremony, and photos (smug mug album). There will be a lot of pictures to come as well as an upcoming post about reintegration. Just know that he's home safe, and we are so happy to have him home for good!

The Donaldson's Homecoming from Michaela Jacobs on Vimeo.

 

True Love

December 11, 2011
 Today I am featuring I guest post by my friend Kayla. (You can read more about her and our friendship here.)  Kayla does not have her own blog at this time but had some thoughts she wanted to share with the cyber-world so I am grateful for this opportunity to give her voice an opportunity to speak.
 
 

“Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”

Post-traumatic stress disorder, chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromyalgia, rheumatoid arthritis, polycystic ovarian syndrome , depression, infertility, Lupus, irritable bowel syndrome, Sjogren’s Syndrome…the list can go on and on. Everyone we meet is fighting a battle. Do we really care? Or are we so wrapped up in our own world?

Bullying is at an all time high.

I remember a while ago, about a year, this woman was talking very negatively about someone I know. This person I know was having an extremely rough time in her life; and when the woman was talking about her, it really rubbed me the wrong way. I kindly asked the woman that she not say those things. She responded by saying, “This is MY freedom of speech, and I can say whatever I want whenever I want.” REALLY?! Just because we have freedom of speech does not mean we can negatively critique, criticize, and attack others! This is the epitome of selfishness. The more selfish we are, the more miserable we are. There is no real joy. And because of bullying…

Suicide rates are at an all time high.

Pain is just pain. It will come in different sorts (mental, emotional, physical). It will swallow you whole. You cannot seem to move forward. The world around you just seems to be moving on without you. Nobody is stopping to help. You are told to just get over it…to just move on. You feel your world collapsing. The pain in your eyes is so obvious. You just wish someone would look at you…REALLY look at you. You are screaming out for help.  You are crying. You are just begging. You feel like you have nowhere to turn; so you turn to drugs, alcohol, food, sex, anything to help the pain go away even if it is just for a small while. You just want to be numb.  You believe there is no hope.

God is love, and all true love comes from Him.

Our society has lost sight of this. We have forgotten God. We have forgotten His love. We have forgotten how to truly love others. Nothing is more powerful than God’s love.

Mark 12: 30,31 KJV

And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all they heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all they strength: this is the first commandment. And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.


Ephesians 4: 32 KJV

And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.


I John 4: 7-11 KJV

Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love. In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loves us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.


“The Golden Rule”

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.


Remember to show

kindness,

compassion,

and

true love that only comes from God

because everyone is fighting a harder battle than you.



Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional. This is just a compilation of my thoughts, and hopefully, they have made make some sense. PLEASE, SEEK OUT A LICENSED MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL FOR ADVICE AND TREATMENT!


 

My Favorite Delicious Christmas Dessert–With Recipe!

December 6, 2011

I'm participating in some of the days in the Wives of Faith Christmas Blog Carnival. It's a lot of fun because they give us topics to write about and we get to read other people's blogs and connect and make friends, not to mention just enjoying Christmas. 

This post is going to be short and sweet...literally! :)

Most people think of cranberry sauce as a standard traditional holiday dish, but it's rare to find a person who actually likes it. That's because most people go to the store and get this "stuff" that comes in a can. You slice it and watch it wiggle on your plate. Weird.

That's not cranberry sauce in our house. Our cranberry sauce is my Grandma Lining's recipe - and it's actually SAUCE! Not only is it amazing and easy, but it is a precious memory. My grandmother passed away when I was four years old, and I don't remember her much at all. But her recipe lives on and will be a part of our holiday season every year if I have any say in the matter.

Recipe is easy

1 bag of cranberries
1 cup of sugar
1 cup of water
1 apple

Boil all of the ingredients, stirring frequently, until the cranberries split and the sugar is dissolved. Run through a food mill (we use a foley food mill like the one pictured below), the texture should be about like that of homemade applesauce, and VOILA! The best cranberry sauce EVER! You have to have the apple in it because it helps counter the tartness you will normally find in cranberries. 

 

And here is a photo of this year's cranberry sauce that we served at Thanksgiving! 


 


 


 

 


 

The Frenzy of Fall Part 5 - These Days

December 4, 2011


Is it possible to catch you up on the last 3 months of random, everyday fun and Ezra's developmental milestones in 10 pictures or less?

It is when you know how to cheat! :)

So what's happening these days?

Ezra has made a lot of progress in his eating! He's almost completely off of baby food and onto table solids. He also likes to drink water and juice, as well as mommy-milk. His new favorite food is soup - of any kind. Which is great because I can sneak in meat and vegetables when he isn't looking! He makes a huge mess at EVERY MEAL and uses his hands a lot more often than his fork and spoon, but we have a BLAST!




Ezra has also gotten a LOT taller. He can now reach MY COUNTERTOPS! And he's learned how to climb on things! Like this:




Ezra has gotten REALLY good at making messes:




But, on the other hand, Ezra has a very sweet and helpful spirit. He loves to help mommy sweep, swiff, water the flowers, put his bath toys away, put things (any things) in the dryer, put things (any things) away in the cupboards, and load and unload the dishwasher whether the dishes are clean or dirty.



Ezra and I have a ton of fun together, just being ourselves. We play games, read books, take walks, and just be goofballs together.



As any mother to a very active, mess-making, couch climbing, into EVERYTHING toddler knows, (especially one who often waits up til midnight to talk to her husband), there are two things necessary for a mom's survival: coffee and adult socialization. So, when I found out that a Starbucks was opening on post, I was pretty thrilled. However, as any mother to a very active, mess-making, couch climbing, into EVERYTHING toddler knows, toddlers and coffeehouses don't really get along. Try trying to talk to your friend about ANYTHING when your kid is knocking coffee, CDs, and breakable mugs off the shelves! So, when I found out that this new Starbucks was right next to and practically attached to an outdoor playground, I pretty much died and went to heaven.

So, on about the second day that it was open, I decided I was going to check it out. On the spur of the moment I put a shoutout on Facebook, texted a bunch of friends, and was all like "Hey, Ezra and I are going to Starbucks! Please join us!" It was awesome, because I've never had such an amazing response to an impromptu playdate. We ended up having six moms and eight children under the age of three. Funny thing was that none of them knew each other, but they all knew me! And this is why I love modern technology and social networking. We all had an amazing time on a BEAUTIFUL 75 degree breezy day, and new friendships were made!




Another awesome place to hang out in our town is Fiddlesticks - an educational play space and mommy hangout! Another genius idea! It's not free, but for $5 you can come and stay as long as your like - let your kids play with the clean, "natural" (mostly wooden and old fashioned) toys or play in the craft and dress-up areas (for older children), while you sit in the nice "mommy corner" and chat with your friends. It's simply...amazing!



So, that's pretty much what's been happening "these days"...and wraps up this "Frenzy of Fall" blog series.

(Aside from Ezra finding yet another million reasons to be the cutest baby in the earth...)




And, in case you lost count, that was only eight "photos."

See, I told you I could do it... :)


 

The Frenzy of Fall Part 4 - Our Fall Photos

December 4, 2011
I tried super-hard to only post my favorites...but you know how I am about favorites! Gotta have at least a thousand!




  

























So thankful for my friend Carleeh who took these photos for us! Please check out her website here:
http://www.wix.com/onlycys/carleehmulhollandphography


 

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